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My Diamond in the Rough

I perused the aisles of the Alameda Antique Fair search­ing for the “dia­mond in the rough”. When I go to antique fairs, I don’t always know what that “dia­mond” is, until I see it. And that’s exactly how it was when I came across an old beat up brown book called Up From Slav­ery, an auto­bi­og­ra­phy by Booker T. Wash­ing­ton. I am no his­tory buff, but the name sounded famil­iar and it had that old mys­te­ri­ous look about it that made me so curi­ous to find out what was inside the old crip­pling pages barely hang­ing on to the spine. I had no idea that this book truly would be my “dia­mond in the rough”.

I could go on and on about all of the things this book has opened me up to, but I wanted to share just one sec­tion with you today. It truly encour­aged me in my busi­ness, but the thing I love about most things I learn in regards to my busi­ness — they can usu­ally be applied to other areas of life. So if you are out there start­ing your own busi­ness like us and often find your­self dis­cour­aged, I hope you find this inspir­ing. How­ever, if you are read­ing and you wouldn’t even think of putting your­self through the tor­ture of start­ing your own busi­ness, I hope you will find some area of your life to apply this great message.

Side note: The copy­right in this book reads 1900, 1901. That makes all of this even more incred­i­ble. This is what Mr. Wash­ing­ton said that sin­cerely lifted me up.

The fol­low­ing pas­sage was in regards to Booker T. Wash­ing­ton build­ing a school from scratch.

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As I look back now over that part of our strug­gle, I am glad that we had it. I am glad that we endured all those dis­com­forts and incon­ve­niences. I am glad that our stu­dents had to dig out the place for their kitchen and din­ing room. I am glad that our first boarding-place was in that dis­mal, ill-lighted, and damp base­ment. Had we started in a fine, attrac­tive, con­ve­nient room, I fear we would have “lost our heads” and become “stuck up.” It means a great deal, I think, to start off on a foun­da­tion which one has made for one’s self.

When our stu­dents return to Tuskegee now, as they often do, and go into our large, beau­ti­ful, well-ventilated, and well-lighted din­ing room, and see tempt­ing, well-cooked food — largely grown by the stu­dents them­selves — and see the tables, neat table­cloths and nap­kins, and vases of flow­ers upon the tables, and hear singing birds, and note that each meal is served exactly upon the minute, with no dis­or­der, and with almost no com­plaint com­ing from the hun­dreds that now fill our din­ing room, they, too, often say to me that they are glad that we started as we did, and built our­selves up year by year, by a slow and nat­ural process of growth.

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Baby Charlotte Contest: The Winner

I just love hav­ing con­tests over here on the PS Blog! It’s great hear­ing from each of you and get­ting your feed­back. It was so fun read­ing all of the dif­fer­ent opin­ions and rea­sons why you chose your favorite image. I have to say a few of you had a great argu­ment for Option Two that I never thought of. Linda was the first to sug­gest it, “You can see the dress a lot more to see that it’s the same one mommy wore.” Great point!

Even though it was a great idea and a good argu­ment, the win­ning image by num­ber of votes was Option One: Best Replica. It seems the major­ity loved how sim­i­lar the two were. It is pretty neat to see the sim­i­lar­i­ties between the gen­er­a­tions. One of my favorite com­ments from the con­test was from Joanna who said, “I vote for #1 because they look so shock­ingly sim­i­lar! Go genes go!” Vitaliy and I are still crack­ing up at the thought of her cheer­ing on genes.

And since I love sav­ing the best for last. No really, I love sav­ing the best for last. You can ask Vitaliy, I have a whole rou­tine about how amaz­ing the last bite on my plate has to be. He thinks it’s absolutely ridicu­lous. I find it to be absolutely cru­cial! Back to my point — it’s time to announce the win­ner of the Star­bucks gift card.

In a ran­dom draw­ing, the win­ner is AMANDA MUELLER!!! She said, “The first pic­ture, being so close to the orig­i­nal and the sweet face. It’s great.” Thanks so much, Amanda, for com­ing to hang out with us and shar­ing your opin­ion. We loved hear­ing from you.

Thank you all again for par­tic­i­pat­ing and for shar­ing so much love with baby Char­lotte and her fam­ily. I bet they have absolutely adored read­ing all of your kind words. I look for­ward to the next con­test. Have a great weekend!

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The Other Side

I dis­tinctly remem­ber one of the last Mid­west thun­der­storms I got to expe­ri­ence. It was a typ­i­cal hot and humid sum­mer day in August of 2006. I had just got­ten mar­ried here in Cal­i­for­nia and we had made a trip home to have a recep­tion with all my friends and fam­ily who couldn’t make it to the wed­ding. It was like any good thun­der­storm, it blew in as quickly as it blew out. I, myself, would have loved it to stick around a lit­tle longer. I love me a good thunderstorm!

We were hang­ing out on my mom’s porch while I played with my nieces and nephews. We could see the blue skies begin to turn darker and darker as the clouds began to roll in. Every­thing got quiet and there was a deep calm that filled the air. As quickly as the silence came over the land, the skies broke open and the rain began to fall. The light­en­ing flashed and you could feel the vibra­tion of the rum­bling thun­der that fol­lowed. I love the power of a thun­der­storm, the beauty of it’s strength and might. The great thing about the thun­der­storms is that they leave a cool­ness to the air which is refresh­ing on a hot sum­mer day and they are often fol­lowed up with a beau­ti­ful burst of sun and if you’re lucky a nice rainbow.

I got to think­ing about this today because I’ve been watch­ing the rain fall all day. The skies in Cal­i­for­nia, at least in my part of Cal­i­for­nia, are a bit calmer. We are cur­rently in our rainy sea­son and the clouds are a cool gray tone and there is a slow and steady flow to the rain drops. The rain storms here typ­i­cally linger; they tend to come and hang out for days.

As I thought about the dif­fer­ences between these two storms — quick and pow­er­ful vs. slow and steady — it made me think how sim­i­lar they are to the storms of life. Some storms in life come through pow­er­fully wreak­ing havoc on any­thing that comes within it’s path. At the same time, there are those storms in life that keep a slow and steady pres­ence in your life. I’m cur­rently in one of the slow and steady storms. It’s not strong enough to knock down any trees or dis­able any elec­tric­ity, but it is just enough to keep me uncom­fort­able when I step out­side my door. What gives me hope is what lies on the other side of any storm, and that, my friends, is new growth.

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Baby Portrait: Charlotte Continued

Well, the story goes that about a week or two before the por­trait ses­sion, Megan calls me to let me know she has some excit­ing news about the shoot. I was thrilled with how things were going so I had no idea what more she could have in mind. After play­ing phone tag for awhile, we finally were able to con­nect and Megan told me, with total excite­ment in her voice, that Char­lotte was going to wear the same dress that she wore in a pic­ture when she was 2 years old. Obvi­ously, Char­lotte is only turn­ing one, but because the dress ties in the back, Char­lotte was able to fit in it just fine. I was so excited because I knew that our pic­tures would be even more spe­cial to them now that they incor­po­rated some­thing so sen­ti­men­tal into the ses­sion. This was like icing on the cake! And I’m pretty sure by now, you all know how much I like my icing.

After the out­door part of the ses­sion was over, we came back to our place to recre­ate a pic­ture of Megan wear­ing the dress when she was 2. It was short, it was sim­ple, but it was oh so spe­cial! As you can see, lit­tle Char­lotte has a lot of hair to grow within the next year to match her Momma at the age of 2. But we’re root­ing her on! (no pun intended) I couldn’t decide on my favorite between the two. The first is the best replica, but the sec­ond is just so Char­lotte. I thought it’d be fun to have a lit­tle vot­ing match here on the blog.

Vote for your favorite in the com­ments sec­tion. At the end of the week, I’ll pick one ran­dom win­ner who voted on the win­ning image. Win­ner gets a $15 gift card to Star­bucks! Go vote!

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Option One: Best Replica

Option Two: Totally Charlotte!

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